Are you are sick of the kind of relationship situations that you get
yourself into and want to know how to attract the RIGHT kind of man,
instead of just ANY man? How would you like to discover how to make a
man adore and never want to leave you? Or you simply wish for more dates
and more choices? Well, there are actually no complicated strategies to attracting and keeping the right man, men are actually quite easy to please; we must take the time and the effort to make ourselves attractive and appealing. Do not misunderstand; we do not mean to imply looks only but your total being.
Keeping a man happy simply requires some imagination and willingness on your path to get off from the mundane and do something exciting to get his pulse racing.
More than almost anything else, a man appreciates a woman who makes an effort to please him in bed; to a man, this shows him that you understand how vitally important sex is to him – and it is.
Below are a few pointers to guide you in the right direction towards attracting and keeping your desired man:
TIP 1 - Deal with yourself
You need to really love yourself and respect yourself in order for others to feel the same about you. There are so many women these days who lack self confidence in themselves and always throw themselves each time a decent guy shows up. They demonstrate to guys that they are needy and need someone to take care of them.
In other words, they start looking for love before they even know what kind of love they are looking for or want.
In the male seduction and dating community there is a very popular theory, that a perfect woman is not a "wuss" or clingy. These traits scare men you are trying to attract away.
TIP 2 – Focus on what type of man you want
This is the most important law of attraction. We get what we focus on. First you must think of the type of man you want to have relationship with. Make a list of the top ten qualities of men that you would like to have. Another good idea is by cutting pictures out from magazines that show a man and a woman enjoying their time together. Post these pictures in a place where you can see them often and look at them several times a day. Imagine that you see yourself in that picture and highlight what things strike you in the picture and will like to have.
TIP 3 – Pay attention to your appearance
Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. Appearances do count.
Make sure the colors, clothes, hairstyle, and makeup are all under your control. Stand up straight, poor posture is a major turnoff. Appeal to his senses with your sensuous voice, fragrance, clothing and appearance. Give him a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that haunts his memory, soft clothes that he yearns to touch, and a smile that he can't get out of his mind.
Remember that you do have control over how good you look, so never compromise your personal style.
TIP 4 – Always be friendly
Guys are always attracted to women who are friendly, pay attention to them, listen when he is talking, respond with respect to his opinions and give him appropriate compliments. A man wants to have someone to converse with, someone to exchange ideas and even spar with.
Always remember not to be too friendly by sharing the bad moments of your life when first talking to him! No one wants to hear those too soon.
TIP 5 – Always have a confident smile
The one thing men always notice about women is their smile. In fact, smiling is regarded by body language experts as the most important element to building attraction when you first meet a person. So the moment you make eye contact with a man, give him your best possible smile.
Men like women who are confident about themselves. So, straighten those shoulders, put your nose up in the air and walk with that confident swagger. Be careful not to overdo it, else it may look arrogant instead of confident.
TIP 6 – Make him laugh
A good sense of humor is one of the best tactics a woman can have in attracting a man. Humor can bring instant connection in a conversation. So, use it at the right time and make him laugh. It will impress him and he may think that you are an interesting woman.
TIP 7 – Be different
Let him know you're different from all the rest. Emphasize your originality through your appearance, personality, intelligence and behavior. Don't try to pretend that you're anyone other than yourself. Show him who you are as a person, don't try to be somebody you're not just to get his attention because it's not fair to either of you. Don't be afraid to disagree with him on topics that matter to you. A good man will appreciate a strong headed woman more than somebody that agrees with everything he says.
Leave a little something to the imagination. Don't bare all or tell all immediately. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a man.
Your appearance and body language may catch his attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a man’s interest.
TIP 8 - Play hard to get
Don't be too obvious in showing your interest in a guy. Ignore every now and then. But don't be so cold that the guy loses interest in you. Giving him space would be a good option for both of you. While you get time to observe him, he gets time to “miss” you. The trick is to leave the guy unsatisfied!…yes you read it right. Unsatisfied is the word over here. Leave him intrigued so that he craves for more; that is what will make him even more attracted towards you.
Your eyes can communicate emotions; they are the windows to our soul. Lock him in a captivating glance and make sure you "speak" with your eyes. Maintain a steady gaze. Do not gawk or stare.
Finally, when you satisfy a man in the way he needs on the deepest level, you will be happy, satisfied and self-confident in the relationship and want to move to the next level.
Here is a quick checklist of what men like and dislike in women they date:
Likes
Respect, Spontaneity, Adventurousness, Value his opinion, Adult discussions, You looking good, Looking up to him, An exciting sex life, You to listening to him, You looking pleased to see him after a hard day.
Dislikes
Nagging, Needy, Smothering him, You talking not listening, Having sex in the same way, Using sex as a bargaining tool, Belittling him in front of his friends, Constantly accusing him of cheating, Talking to him as though he is a naughty kid, Boring clothing (e.g. un-sexy underwear)
The above tips are not only to help you attract a man, but to keep his attention, create the relationship of your dreams, maintain your love and finally getting him to commit without playing games. And all of this has to be with the RIGHT guy, not just ANY guy!
Wishing you a fulfilling year in your relationship!
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